Thursday, March 29, 2007

At a loss

How do you get a 5-year-old to get up and get dressed and eat and be ready? She just lays there, maybe moves while I'm in the room, but stops when I turn to help the other daughter. How can I motivate her? She doesn't care if we're late. She just wants to listen to music or play with a flashlight or pretend to be asleep or do whatever else happens to catch her attention.

How do you catch a cloud and pin it down?

3 comments:

TurboNed said...

Hehehehe, I think I remember doing that to my mother. I honestly don't know if there really was anything specific that would make me do what I was supposed to do - at that point in life you're pretty carefree and oftentimes threats of future punishment (no dessert after dinner) are too abstract to comprehend (though she'll wish she had done it when it comes to be after-dinner-time) and at-the-moment punishment will just propel her into a fussy uncooperative mood instead of a pleasant (but still unhelpfully uncooperative) mood. All things considered (and with my prolific experience in parenting to back me up on this), the at-the-moment punishment is probably the most likely to be effective, probably the best response, and quite possibly going to net you nothing at all but a bad attitude.

Mmmmmmm, five-year-olds.

Karya said...

Scary, but you have her nailed down exactly.

Of course, it didn't help me, but....

TurboNed said...

I live to serve.