This year the girls and Spitz took over decorating the table we bought at the church Christmas dinner. All the tables at the dinner have a host or hostess that is given a list of items needed for the dinner (candles, salad tongs, etc) and told to gat the table ready at certain times. It makes for a beautiful fellowship hall, and the morning before the dinner, everyone tours looking at all the fabulous decorations. Each table is a work of art created by the individual hosts. Some go all out and have fancy china and little gifts, maybe place cards or candy. Others just buy paper plates and make sure all the necessary silverware is set on the table. But the combination of all the different approaches is wonderful.
For the last few years, I've decorated our table (some years we've sat with our Sunday school class and members volunteered to do the tables; recently we've invited enough family along that we needed our own table). Some years, I've gone all out, but the clean up at the end of the night is extensive when you are hauling home big glass pitchers and tons of china. So, other years, I've done simpler, but tried to still be creative on the decorating. This year, Spitz informed me it was his turn.
The trip to the party store was fraught with arguments. We should not have done it just before dinner; that's the worst time of day for moods. But we finally settled on a blue-green table cloth, red plates, clear cups, red candles, all covered with silver snowflakes. We found an extra touch in some streamer-like snowflake decorations to hang from the ceiling (never seen anyone else hang something from the ceiling - we had to stand out!). We also grabbed enough candy to decorate the centerpiece.
Now, Spitz doesn't do things like this halfway. They decided on a gingerbread house, but we didn't go buy one of those kits with the rock hard gingerbread walls already baked. No. Every inch of this house was homemade. He found recipes on the internet. He sought out powdered, pasteurized egg whites to make the icing hard enough to stand, but still edible. They used Andes mints to give the roof shingles (yummy!). Gum drops were supposed to look like lights. They even made some tree and people shaped cookies to set around the house. It was a work of art.
And at the end of the dinner, we ate it! (-: